Walang sapilitan.
Si Lord nga binigyan tayo ng free will e.
Just because I don't comply doesn't make rebellious and disrespectful and deserving of a punishment. When there were rejected requests and ideas, you should have known that there were also rejected invitation and orders. You can call me disobedient, but then call yourselves unjust. Just because you have the power to impose whatever it is you want, you wont consider anymore the feelings of your subordinates. And where's the justice in that?
We should remember that a perfect and harmonious relationship has one of the most important factors -- they know how to give and take. And that is something just. And when things are just, then people obey. Because they know you are playing fair, so they will pay by being fair.
So please, don't hold them so tight, we all know they will struggle and will try to be set free from your grip. And it's not because they are rebellious, but because your grip is starting to cause them pain. So please, hold them just the right way.